I am not one to jump to conclusions on issues, especially when I am not in the show. As such, I wouldn’t chastize Vic or Loy except for their inability to settle things within themselves – afterall they are family. See the bashing.
http://www.loyokezie.com/startupsnigeria/
http://www.startupsnigeria.com/2009/09/startups-nigeria-editor-or-blogger-wanted/
Chei, I thought it was all settled o. Until I saw it this morning.
For me, I wouldn’t bash an enemy online, talk less of a brother. These dudes have done it and as someone commented here, they will laugh over it someday.
That’s not my business though, my concern is “Who will fill in the gap?” and other close questions as well. I have learnt a lot from the whole saga, and this is my take:
My advice to Vic & Loy, forget about startupsnigeria.com! Vic, sell outrightly. Loy, lick the wounds. Forget the startupnigeria.org, move on. Start techchop.com (I had once referred to Loy as our own Michael Arrington a la www.techcrunch.com, and my opinion on that still remains the same) or keep the game up with your www.loyokezie.com.
For all of us, we will keep doing our stuff and supporting those who do their stuff well too. Nigeria is getting better for all of these, and soonest our 150 million population will start making sense as far as the web, internet and social media is concerned.
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Hmm, nice piece:-)
Oh…and by the way, Startups Nigeria is a brand name I created, founded and developed. I advice that you ask questions before writing your opinion, Ope.
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Taking sides or not, this is outrageous and very pathetic.
I am going to say what I am about to say because this blog post was made available for the public to make judgements, hence I am going to make one.
1. Vic is the exact example of someone I would keep distance away from and would never ever want to have anything to do with, and anybody that thinks it is wise to buy this domain or take over this domain is making a very big mistake.
We should all thank our stars, that we don’t have brothers like him, and I find it very annoying that he is parading for the brother of the year award !!
Perhaps in some families, goodwill gestures are a luxury, and should be celebrated with trophies.
2. From All I have read Loy explain about the situation, I cant find anywhere where he blames his brother for stealing off his blog, other than explaining that it created a conflict of interest.
3. Everybody would agree that Loy has full intellectual rights to the site, so saying someone else should take over is just outrageous. I don’t understand what you were insinuating?
4. Assuming the brother (Vic) bought the domain name and hosted the hosting with his own money, he has every right to hold just that, but the content of the blog should have been released to the younger brother.
He has no justification in holding it, even if he bought Loy’s pampers during his childbirth.
5. Loy said his brother was jealous of the blog, and so what? Is that what warranted for this public humiliation of one’s own brother?
This is the most pathetic and unfortunate feud between blood brothers.
Nevertheless Vic made it quiet clear that when he says “The only request my family made to him was to fully apologize for all what he has done and said and move on – this he will not do and it is obvious he doesn’t intend to do.”
My family indeed, what happened to Our family, but then again, what do I know about family and love, when my expectations is so high?
I find it quiet disturbing that things like this are left without proper criticism. Lets call a spade a spade.
In my view, the StartupsNigeria brand has been tarnished with all the drama.
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I must say that the entire saga has been indeed a show of shame. I expect Vic to have handle the situation differently. Since he kept quite for so long while online friends of Loy criticise his action with hot words, he would have used wisdom in settlng the whole issue. Some facts cannot be swept under the carpet:
1. Startupsnigeria has come to be identified with Loy. In my humble opinion, anyone trying to take over the blog without getting Loy’s consent will be deemed a thief by the online community.
2. The materials presently on the blog technically belong to Loy. Even if the story of him stealing a laptop is true (I’m personally not convinced about that story the picture posted not withstanding). For example, I made a blog post on that blog and it was for Loy sake, not any other person. I gave it to him not Career Nigeria
3. Since Loy has started startupsnigeria.org, Vic will be wiser to let go of the startupnigeria.com blog irrespective of the offense he claimed Loy committed.
Like several people have said, it is stupid washing dirty linen in the public. I noted that Loy has been very tactical with his accusations while Vic has failed to avoid being reckless and brash with his accusations. Vic must be reminded that the internet does not forgive! Who knows, the things he wrote on that site about stolen laptop and all the rest may come back to hunt him two decades from now.
Kudo’s Opeawo, this is my first time here. You’ve got a lovely blog. Cheers.
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